With some views from the Republic of Korea today, I have now had visitors to my blog from 37 different countries and 3,247 views on 161 posts I have posted. That is pretty cool to me.
Still have a ways to go to get a visit from every country on this big blue marble. Pass the word!
Well, I was offered another six month stint yesterday and I accepted it today, so I will be in Washington here at the Spit at least until April 1st, 2014. I must be doing something right! I really like being here and the people I get to work with. I still am very fortunate to have this opportunity.
Got to talk to a friend tonight that I have not talked to in a while. It was really nice to talk about some things. Thanks for the phone call!
Not sure when it happened, but gas here in this area went up over $4 a gallon. I bought gas nine days ago at Costco and it was $3.50 a gallon. I drove past the Safeway yesterday and it was $4.09, and today I see on http://www.gasbuddy.com that it is now $4.00 at Costco. At the Shell it is $4.16.
This is the price it was when I got here last September. The prices did not seem too bad since I had just came out of Canada and had to get a mortgage to fill my car up every time there. Funny how I read an article not long ago saying that the prices would not be as high as last year. I guess the last laugh is on us.
Glad I got a motorcycle. That 45 MPG is going to come in mighty handy. I am going to have to start riding in the rain and dealing with it. I do not do that much driving so it does not hit me too much at the moment.
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Somebody recently sent me an e-mail with an attachment about “22 Habits of Happy People” that I thought was worth passing along. I looked through these, and I make use of many of these habits listed. Many of these things I actually used to help me get through the challenges I faced last year with all the changes in my life. I had not heard of this list at the time and had to figure out many of these things on my own.
Have a look through them and see how many of these things you can say that you follow.
I do not know who came up with this list but I would certainly credit them if I did know. I searched for that answer and found several other blogs and some websites have posted it.
22 Positive Habits of Happy People
What’s the secret to being happy? You can learn how to do it, just as you can learn any other skill. Those who are happy tend to follow a certain set of habits that create peace in their lives; if you learn to apply these habits in your own life, there’s a good chance you’ll be happy too.
The featured article compiled 22 such behaviors that you can use to enhance your life and your happiness.
1. Let Go Of Grudges
Forgiving and forgetting is necessary for your own happiness, as holding a grudge means you’re also holding onto resentment, anger, hurt and other negative emotions that are standing in the way of your own happiness. Letting go of a grudge frees you from negativity and allows more space for positive emotions to fill in.
2. Treat Everyone With Kindness
Kindness is not only contagious, it’s also proven to make you happier. When you’re kind to others, your brain produces feel-good hormones and neurotransmitters like serotonin and you’re able to build strong relationships with others, fostering positive feelings all around.
3. Regard Your Problems As Challenges
Change your internal dialogue so that anytime you have a “problem” you view it as a challenge or a new opportunity to change your life for the better. Eliminate the word “problem” from your mind entirely.
4. Express Gratitude For What You Have
People who are thankful for what they have are better able to cope with stress, have more positive emotions, and are better able to reach their goals. The best way to harness the positive power of gratitude is to keep a gratitude journal or list, where you actively write down exactly what you’re grateful for each day. Doing so has been linked to happier moods, greater optimism and even better physical health.
5. Dream Big
Go ahead and dream big, as you’ll be more likely to accomplish your goals. Rather than limiting yourself, when you dream big you’re opening your mind to a more optimistic, positive state where you have the power to achieve virtually anything you desire.
6. Don’t Sweat The Small Stuff
If the issue you’re mad about will be irrelevant a year, a month, a week or even a day from now, why sweat it? Happy people know how to let life’s daily irritations roll off their back.
7. Speak Well of Others
It may be tempting to gather around the office water cooler to get and give the daily gossip, but talking negatively about others is like taking a bath in negative emotions; your body soaks them up. Instead, make it a point to only say positive, nice words about other people, and you’ll help foster more positive thinking in your own life as well.
8. Avoid Making Excuses
It’s easy to blame others for your life’s failures, but doing so means you’re unlikely to rise past them. Happy people take responsibility for their mistakes and missteps, then use the failure as an opportunity to change for the better.
9. Live in The Present
Allow yourself to be immersed in whatever it is you’re doing right now, and take time to really be in the present moment. Avoid replaying past negative events in your head or worrying about the future; just savor what’s going on in your life now.
10. Wake Up At The Same Time Every Morning
Getting up at the same time every day (preferably an early time) is deceptively simple. Doing so will help regulate your circadian rhythm so you’ll have an easier time waking and likely feel more energized. Plus, the habit of rising early every day is one shared by many successful people, as it enhances your productivity and focus.
11. Don’t Compare Yourself To Others
Your life is unique, so don’t measure your own worth by comparing yourself to those around you. Even regarding yourself as better than your peers is detrimental to your happiness, as you’re fostering judgmental feelings and an unhealthy sense of superiority. Measure your own success based on your progress alone, not that of others.
12. Surround Yourself With Positive People
The saying “misery loves company” is entirely true. That’s why you need to choose friends who are optimistic and happy themselves, as you will be surrounded with positive energy.
13. Realize That You Don’t Need Others’ Approval
It’s important to follow your own dreams and desires without letting naysayers stand in your way. It’s fine to seek others’ opinions, but happy people stay true to their own hearts and don’t get bogged down with the need for outside approval.
14. Take Time To Listen
Listening helps you soak in the wisdom of others and allows you to quiet your own mind at the same time. Intense listening can help you feel content while helping you gain different perspectives.
15. Nurture Social Relationships
Positive social relationships are a key to happiness, so be sure you make time to visit with friends, family and your significant other.
Meditation helps you keep your mind focused, calms your nerves and supports inner peace. Research shows it can even lead to physical changes in your brain that make you happier.
17. Eat Well
What you eat directly impacts your mood and energy levels in both the short and long term. Whereas eating right can prime your body and brain to be in a focused, happy state, eating processed junk foods will leave you sluggish and prone to chronic disease. My free nutrition plan is an excellent tool to help you choose the best foods for both physical and emotional wellness.
Exercise boosts levels of health-promoting brain chemicals like serotonin, dopamine, and norepinephrine, which may help buffer some of the effects of stress and also relieve some symptoms of depression. Rather than viewing exercise as a medical tool to lose weight, prevent disease, and live longer – all benefits that occur in the future – try viewing exercise as a daily tool to immediately enhance your frame of mind, reduce stress and feel happier.
19. Live Minimally
Clutter has a way of sucking the energy right out of you and replacing it with feelings of chaos. Clutter is an often-unrecognized source of stress that prompts feelings of anxiety, frustration, distraction and even guilt, so give your home and office a clutter makeover, purging it of the excess papers, files, knick knacks and other “stuff” that not only takes up space in your physical environment, but also in your mind.
20. Be Honest
Every time you lie, your stress levels are likely to increase and your self-esteem will crumble just a little bit more. Plus, if others find out you’re a liar it will damage your personal and professional relationships. Telling the truth, on the other hand, boosts your mental health and allows others to build trust in you.
21. Establish Personal Control
Avoid letting other people dictate the way you live. Instead, establish personal control in your life that allows you to fulfill your own goals and dreams, as well as a great sense of personal self-worth.
22. Accept What Cannot Be Changed
Everything in your life is not going to be perfect, and that’s perfectly all right. Happy people learn to accept injustices and setbacks in their life that they cannot change, and instead put their energy on changing what they can control for the better.
A Healthy Lifestyle Naturally Enhances Happiness
Thinking of going there as my next travel destination. I have never been there and it’s one of the last four states I have not visited. I think five to seven days there seeing some tropical forest, maybe a volcano, and spending time in a hut/cottage on the beach with a bottomless glass of wine and cocktails sounds like some time well spent.
I will have to do some research on that at some point to find out some things.
Today we started a new project – well, new for me. They have been doing this the last few years and this is the start of this year’s season.
There is an invasive species of crab called the European Green Crab. It is a nasty little bastard, decimating other species of crabs, mollusks, and other small crustaceans. They have been spotted close to us – across the Strait in Canada, so we have to monitor to see if they have gotten over here yet. Fingers are crossed that they haven’t and that we do not find any of them. Not much can really be done about invasive species unfortunately. They are too small to be economically harvested to eat but they are edible. These things are so invasive that it is even against the law to possess or transport them if they are alive.
We went out at low tide to set ten crab traps today. We have two sets of five traps at two separate locations on The Spit. We will go out tomorrow to check the traps to see what we have caught. This will be very interesting since nearly anything can end up in the traps.
I will try to get some pictures tomorrow and update with another post if there is anything interesting.